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The reader is a leader

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I started setting myself monthly challenges since January last year.

 

There is so much freedom when you choose your own challenges, your own curriculum.

 

I decided to start this year and January with focus on reading and writing.

 

In order to be a better writer and coach, a better leader and person, you have to read more. The reader is a leader and every leader should be a reader, too.

 

That was my main motivation for the challenge. Along with my role model Brendon Burchard. He says that if you want to reignite your life, you have to set yourself challenges, including reading a book per week and that's what he has been doing for more than 20 years...

 

Last year, I read a book per week and I wanted to repeat that challenge again. But…the point is what I learned in the end. Looking back at the last year and the four books I read for one month – a book per week, I discovered that there wasn’t much benefit for me. I can't say anything about the content of these books now. However, that was a very useful experience for my language skills. I started speaking more fluently in Russian, the words came easier to me. That’s why, I think to repeat that challenge again for developing my fluency in Russian language. But in terms of personal development – learning and implementing the knowledge, I need more time, more time to take notes, to reflect… As well as that, I'm aware of the fact that when I read a book per week, my focus is on finishing the book on time, not so much on the content.

 

Focus is power. But the most important thing is, why am I doing this? What is the purpose? Your WHY is what matters! Everything Starts with Why!

 

Like a friend of mine said: "Let us imagine that you wish to explore all 50 states in the USA. Would you jump in your car and drive 144 km/h (90 mph) racing through each state and then, in a year time, proclaim that you know each state? If your goal is just to say you've read a bunch of books, then by all means, set lofty goals, but if your goal is to be transported, immersed, and enlightened, embrace and savor your journeys. As a writer, I would rather people walk through my book, not drive 144 km/h." (Terry Fields)

 

I understand now that everyone's approach to reading is different.

 

I think the way you read a book represents your character. It reveals something about your character. Particularly for me, some weaknesses. Challenging myself to improve my reading, I believe I can improve my character, too.

 

So this time, I decided not to set a deadline – a book per week, but to focus on what I’m reading. I still set a deadline, though – 3 books per month (I’m happy to say I read more). But my focus was on the content and trying to learn as much as possible + taking action, i.e. implementing the knowledge. For me, this approach works much better. Because some books are longer, others are shorter. Some require more time, some less. One of the books, The Alchemist I read for 3 hours in one snowy afternoon.

 

Below are some of my accomplishments in January – Focus on Reading and Writing. Like always, I’m sharing them with you in the hope to inspire you to reach a new level of success and to be more determined, patient and persistent. Be a Hero!

 

January - Month of Reading and Writing – Accomplishments

First and foremost, I’m very happy to say that I didn’t miss my Morning Ritual – my hour of power and joy. If you don’t know what morning ritual is, please, read my experience with it 

Books

1.    Read + took notes – Millionaire Success Habits by Dean Graziosi

2.    Read The Alchemist by Paolo Coelho + wrote an article: My Lessons from The Alchemist – part 1

3.    Read The Alchemist for the second time. This time took notes. A lot of lessons from this book – I’m planning to write the part 2 to My Lessons from The Alchemist. The interesting thing is that I needed 3 hours to finish the book both times.

4.    Read + took notes – The Leadership Guide by Brendon Burchard – 36% finished in January. I’m continuing reading this book in February, too.

5.    Read Духовният живот на православния християнин – an Orthodox book by the Bulgarian monk – arch. Seraphim Aleksiev (My faith is of very big importance to me. That’s why I’ve decided to read at least one Orthodox book per month)

6.    Read twice – The Power of Habit by Brian Tracy (the first time – aloud, the second time – took notes)

 

Creations

1. Wrote 10 new stories for my blog and for my book – English with Inspirational Stories – Personal Stories by Dimi – part 1

 

2. Prepared 3 new books

 

 

as a free gift to my students (Collected poems + wrote “How to Use Calendar to Grow”) You can download my books for FREE here

 

3. Created a new music card “Be a Hero” for 123greetings.com

4.    Translated a new poem by arch. Seraphim – Spring has Arrived

 

Inspiration

1.    Watch many inspirational videos by Brendon Burchard + took notes - Plan an EXTRAORDINARY 2017! Here's how, The Year of High Performance. Will this be a courageous year for you? (some of the best ones for me)

2.    Got inspired by Marie Forleo and her videos – one of them - ONTRApalooza 2012: Marie Forleo!

3.    Discovered the work of Jim Rohn and I love it! – watched many of his videos + took notes

4.    Started a notebook – My Lessons – each day at the end of it, I write in my notebook what I have learned

5.    Journaling – Each day – my accomplishments + what went well and what didn’t go well + Beauty Witness Exercise by Brendon Burchard

 

**************************Only two things can change our lives: either something new comes into our lives, or something new comes from WITHIN. - Brendon Burchard.

 

The World of Advertisement

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English Word of the Day - clumsy

1.

Ad is a short film about some product. There are many commercial ads which you can see on TV. What makes a good ad? Great music, good actors, good idea, funny joke?

"Hello, I'd like to order French fries, a burger and a milk shake."
"This is a library."
"I'd like to order French fries, a burger and a milk shake."


Beauty is nothing without brains – Mercedes-Benz car company:

2.

- One minute ... one minute please. Time ... thank you!

Could you all please put down your pens and bring your papers to the front of the room?

Thank you. Well done! Thank you ... Thank you ... Thank you.
- Oh! I'm sorry you're too late.
I gave you plenty of warnings about time.
You've failed. Sorry.

- Excuse me. Do you know who I am?

- I have absolutely no idea.

Words: plenty, warning

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3.

Retell the story from the video using the words:

deaf (= unable to hear), mute (= unable to speak), against all odds, (The numbers 1, 3, 5, 7, … are all odd numbers - they can't be divided by two. They are not even (even – 2, 4, 6, 8,…). Also, things that are strange are called odd.)

passion, extinguish, bully

(bully = a person who uses their strength or power to frighten or hurt weaker people),

peer ( = someone at your own level) pressure, put down

(put somebody ↔ down = to criticize someone and make them feel silly or stupid, especially in front of other people),

discourage, befriend

(befriend = to become a friend of somebody. The prefix "be-" is from Old English, and has several meanings. In befriend, the meaning is "cause to be," so to befriend someone is to cause him or her to be your friend),

encourage, persevere

(persevere = to continue trying to do something in a very patient and determined way, in spite of difficulties - use this to show approval),

shine

You CAN shine. All you need is to believe that you ARE special Smile

4.

Silence of Love – Thai Life Insurance Commercial with English subtitles

Retell the video using the words:

poignant commercial, depict, peer pressure, bully, break up with someone, commit suicide, ultimate sacrifice, tear-jerking

Homework:

Father's Day is held on the third Sunday of June in the United Kingdom. What about your country? :-)

“My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me.” Jim Valvano

What specific memory do you
have of your father? What did he teach you? When did he support you?

5.

Listening Practice: http://www.lyricstraining.com/play/11119/ellie_goulding/your_song_cover

It's a little bit funny

 

This feeling inside

 

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I don't have much money

 

But boy if I did

 

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We both could live

 

 

 

And you can tell everybody,

 

This is your song

 

_______________________________

 

Now that is done

 

_______________________________

 

That I put down in words

 

_______________________________

 

At work – part 2

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Speak about you and your work using the words below:

to be called for an interview, to be your own boss, a dead-end job, to do a job-share, a good team player, full-time, a heavy workload, a high-powered job, holiday entitlement, job satisfaction, manual work, maternity leave, to meet a deadline, a nine-to-five job, one of the perks of the job, part-time, to run your own business, to be self-employed, sick leave, to be stuck behind a desk, to be/get stuck in a rut, to take early retirement, temporary work, voluntary work, to be well paid, working conditions

During your working life

I.  Listen and fill in the missing words. Then answer the questions.

1.    In some countries, women are allowed …….. and men …….. if they’re having a child. How is it in your country?

2.    What ……, ……do you get in your job?

3.    How important is ….. to you?

4.    What’s your ………..?

5.    Do you get regular salary ………….?

6.    Most people think they are ………………………

7.    Are you good at looking after your money? For instance, do you think you’re …………., or do you ……. large sums of money?

II. Some words here are not used correctly or in their usual way. Correct them.

1.    My holiday titlement is four weeks a year.

2.    He got maternity leave when his wife had a baby.

3.    Does he spend his money carelessly? – No, he squanders most of it.

4.    I’m underpaid and overworked, like everybody! And I’m always stressed up!

5.    My boss rose my salary with $2 000 a year. I was delighted.

III. Put these expressions into two groups – usually negative and usually positive.

1.    to be short-listed for a job

2.    to have a lot of perks

3.    to be snowed under

4.    to get turned down for a job

IV. Imagine you are a career advisor. What advice would you give to someone who …

1.    is seeking a lucrative career?

2.    is suffering from a lack of job satisfaction in their present job?

3.    wants to get more perks?

Homework:

Your task before the next lesson will be to watch the IT Crowd Yesterday's Jam in your free time and retell a summary of the plot during our lesson. That is to practise your listening and speaking skills. Hope you'll enjoy the movie which I've chosen:

1.      First watch it without subtitles - the IT Crowd Yesterday's Jam: http://vimeo.com/35437594

2.      Then with subtitles: http://ororo.tv/shows/the-it-crowd#1-1

3.      http://englishwordoftheday2010.blogspot.com/2013/06/homework-it-crowd-yesterdays-jam.html

 

Past Continuous and Past Simple

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Past Continuous and Past Simple

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Learn with Dimi

Grammar - Past Continuous

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Analogy between Present Continuous and Past Continuous

Continuous tenses express unfinished action. The action is in progress at a specific time.

Present Continuous – something which is happening at the moment, at the present moment. The activity is not finished. You are in the middle of doing something. The activity is in progress in the present time.

Past Continuous - something which was happening at a specific moment in the past. The activity was not finished. You were in the middle of doing something. The activity was in progress in the past time.

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Past Continuous – unfinished action in the past

We use Past Continuous:

1. for an action which was in progress at a particular time in the past. We do not know when the action started or finished.

At three o’clock yesterday afternoon, the kids were playing with the dog. (We do not know when they started or finished playing with the dog)

Chris was running at 9 pm yesterday. (We don’t know when he started and when he finished running. We know at  9 pm yesterday, at that time, he was in the middle of running)

2.  For a past action which was in progress when another action interrupted it. We use Past Continuous for the action in progress (the longer action) and Past Simple for the action which interrupted it (the shorter action)

Chris was cooking burgers for breakfast when his landlord knocked on his door. (was cooking = longer action; knocked = shorter action)

3. For two or more actions which were happening at the same time in the past (simultaneous actions).

* Chris was entering the room while the people were working:

** The sun was shining and the birds were singing while I was walking in the park.

4. with a word like always or constantly when there is criticism or complaint:

Your girlfriend was always calling you at the wrong moment:

Another examples:

** She was constantly talking. She annoyed everyone.

*** You were always buying new clothes!

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(the whole video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kUc-jeDr-u0)

 

Second Conditional with songs

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Use the Second Conditional to talk about impossible, imaginary, or unlikely situations about present or future

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If I were an animal, what would I be?

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What would you do if you won …?

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See the video description for the words: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNLhSz81zoY

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The Importance of Body Language

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Exercise 1

Learn how body language can determine whether you get hired or not. Fill in the missing words in the text below:

Body Language Expert: Job Interview

There are many things that can sabotage you on a job interview.

A swearword tattoo to cross your knuckles,...

...drunken karaoke videos on your MySpace page...

...or having ever worked for hotnewz.

Just kidding.

But one you 1. _____________.

Greg Hartley, author of Body Language Expert, explains.

About 2. _____________.

It's with 3. _____________,...

...with your body language, with 4. _____________, with the way you

5. _____________someone.

When you go to a job interview, one of the first things to remember is the younger you are,

the more energy you are liable to have.

And that energy will lead through things called adaptors.

For those of us who aren't up on our body language lingo,

adaptors means 6. _____________.

Like 7. _____________ if it's a woman or if it's a guy you may 8. _____________or

9. _____________...

...and that's the release of energy that shows that you are 10. _____________.

You need to 12. _____________.

So remember, if you're squirming more than a two-year-old watching Seize band, they may not want you to manage the big account.

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MP3 file: http://soundcloud.com/dimi2012/body-language-expert-job/s-l8u4a

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Exercise 2

 

So this is what we did. We decided to bring people into the lab and run a little experiment, and these people adopted, for two minutes, either high-power poses or low-power poses, and I'm just going to show you five of the poses, although they took on only two. So here's one. A couple more. This one has been dubbed the "Wonder Woman" by the media. Here are a couple more. So you can be standing or you can be sitting. And here are the low-power poses. So you're folding up, you're making yourself small. This one is very low-power. When you're touching your neck, you're really protecting yourself.

MP3 file: http://soundcloud.com/dimi2012/high-power-poses-or-low-power/s-tvfPK

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What do you think – what is the importance of body language in our life? Do you think your body language shapes who you are?

Record your answer with Sound Recorder program or any other sound recording software.

To express your opinion use:

I think

In my opinion

From my point of view

As far as I know

Personally, I think

Generally speaking

First of all

Finally

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Exercise 3

Fill in the missing words:

Fill in the missing words

Fill in the missing words

MP3 file: http://soundcloud.com/dimi2012/high-power/s-978t0

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Study the new words: http://quizlet.com/21328153/unit-3-body-language-flash-cards/

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Extra activity

The Definitive Book of Body Language by Random House Publishing Group